The Kindness of Strangers

An elderly man knocked on my door today.  He was riding his bike past my house and saw our magnolia tree in bloom.

He asked if I would mind if he took a branch with some blooming blossoms as he would like to paint them.  They reminded him of his childhood home.  I said "Of course - please help yourself".  He took a branch and went on his way.  I smiled, closed the door and thought not much more about it and went back to work.

Three hours later, the same gentleman knocked again.  He had showered, changed his clothes and had walked back.  He had some tears in his eyes as he showed me an old black and white photograph of his family home in Austria.  It was absolutely beautiful. He told me a few stories about his home and how much his mother had loved the magnolia trees.  He hadn't been back home in over 50 years

Then he handed me a beautiful hand carved door knocker that he had made a long time ago with his father.  He just gave it to me with a smile and said "Thank-you" and went on his way.

I am so touched.  This chance encounter warmed my heart.  I am so thankful that I opened the door.

I was in the midst of writing a presentation on leadership and I thought - for all of us how important it is to open the door, to listen and to give without expectation.  We have no idea the impact of what we do.

Small acts of kindness are what make the world go round.

Take Time to Think and Plan

If you want to enjoy one of the greatest luxuries in life, the luxury of having enough time, time to rest, time to think things through, time to get things done and know you have done them to the best of your ability, remember there is only one way.  Take enough time to think and plan things in the order of their importance.  

You life will take on a new zest, you will add years to your life, and more life to your years.  Let all your things have their places.  Let each part of your business have its time.

~ Benjamin Franklin

Effective Management: Focusing on the How




Management is the art of getting things done through people." 

~ Mary Parker Follet

Leading from the middle is tough.


I have been fortunate to spend time in Chicago with Dr. Janet L. Szumal and Dr. Robert A. Cooke of Human Synergistics learning more about how to support managers to become more effective by aligning their capabilities with the organization’s vision, values and strategies.
We all know managers directly influence the thinking, behaviour, and performance of the people around them. Whether intentionally or unintentionally, directly or indirectly, managers motivate or drive people to behave in certain ways.
Most managers would like their staff and colleagues to view them as positive contributors to the organization’s vision and goals, leading productive and effective teams. They want to be seen as trustworthy, influential, good problem solvers and effective at moving the organization forward.
Yet it’s a familiar lament that people do not leave organizations; they leave their bosses. For example, in a 2006 study by Florida State University more than 40% of respondents indicated that they worked for “bad bosses”. 

So where’s the disconnect?


In many cases, the organization rewards results (the what) over means (the how), driving a focus on more short-term objectives and outcomes. So managers are assessed on the basis of whether they accomplish something, not on how it was accomplished.
There is hope, however. Managers can improve their effectiveness by being more aware and connected to the organization’s strategy, understanding the needs and interests of the organization and its customers/clients, being focused on the long-term, building constructive relationships, and being empowering and supportive.
Human Synergistics has exciting tool that can help managers be more effective: the Management/Impact tool (M/I). This tool gives managers insights into how they approach their work and more importantly the impact that they have on the people around them.
The Management/Impact Tool:
  • Gives managers detailed feedback on how they approach their work, the impact that they have on the people around them, and their management effectiveness.
  • Examines managerial performance in three categories: tasks (goals, change, problems, results), people (teams, colleagues, communication) and personal (integrity, self development and emotions).
  • Provides the manager and the organization with concrete actions to improve overall results and effectiveness.
The thing I like best about the M/I tool is its simplicity.   It’s a great tool because it highlights 'the how' of middle managers’ jobs, empowering their choices and guiding their management style.
Managing from the middle is tough – and the M/I tool helps organizations value this work and the people who do it.

- by Susan Kleinschmidt     

Leading Through Connections

What CEOs Can Learn from the Global IBM Study


A recently released study, Leading Through Connections, from IBM of more that 1,700 CEOs from over 64 countries provides some interesting insights into emerging trends and issues impacting organizations worldwide.

Top Trends Identified 




  Advancements in social technologies to engage with customers, employees, partners, investors and the world at large
          50% of CEOs expect social channels to be a primary way of engaging customers within 5 years
  Complexity of increased levels of connectedness of organizations, markets, societies and governments
  Overflow of data and information

A Connected Organization Requires Planning


  Frustration about their inability to capitalize on available information and translate insights into action better than industry peers
                       25% of CEOs say their organizations operate below par in driving value from data
  Need for CEO and C-Suite to:
                     Recognize and lead change to open, constructive and flexible organizational cultures
                   Create clear strategy, sense of purpose and corporate values to support employees and guide decisions and actions
                      Improve internal communication and corporate collaboration utilizing advances in technology
                      Build future proof employees who are equipped to adapt – who are collaborative, communicative, creative and flexible
CEOs and organizational leaders must be on top of changes and advancements in technology.  They must understand how these will affect both the external business environment and the internal organization.  “Simply put, technology is reinventing connections with – and among – employees, customers and partners”.

Strategic Thinking = Success


To be a successful organization of the future, the CEO and the Executive Team need to follow a true strategic thinking process – one that enables them to develop a clear strategy and distinctive positioning for their organization.  This process needs to take into account the anticipated changes in the future environment including the rapid advancements in technology.  The team needs to determine whom they will serve and equally as importantly, whom they will not serve.  They must make decisions about products, services, and the scope of the organization.  
This strategic profile provides a tangible, actionable and clear vision of the organization’s future, allowing all members of the organization to filter or discriminate between opportunities, to allocate resources strategically and to speak a common language.  It provides:
•       FOCUS: A clear statement of strategy that is concrete and can provide guidance to decision makers
•       CONGRUENCE: A common way to tie together leadership, key players and staff directions; and will
•       ENABLE A STRATEGIC RESPONSE TO CHANGE: Plans need to enable the organization to respond strategically to change yet allow for stability in the core
Once a true strategy is created, the C-Suite must critically confront their cultural reality and assess its readiness to execute the plan.  Through this process the levers for culture change can be identified (structure, systems, technologies, skills) and actions taken to move to a more performance based culture. 
As Michael Porter states, strategy is the glue that holds together the many systems and initiatives within any organization.  Without it, consistency of action, commitment to the organizational vision and an innovative and flexible approach to a constantly changing external environment is not possible. 
Is your executive team and your organization ready for the shift?

The secret to success is constancy of purpose
~Benjamin Disraeli

The Story of the Sun and the Wind

Blooming in the Rain
Image Blooming in the rain by http://dryicons.com 

~Adapted from Aesop’s Fables
The sun and the wind enter a competition to see who can make a man remove his coat first.
While the wind attempts a direct assault on him, the man simply draws his coat tighter.
The sun takes her turn and simply slowly warms him and the man easily removes his jacket.

Moral of the Story: 
“Kindness, gentleness, and persuasion win where force fails.”